SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

Family vs life

I am 28 yrs female living happily in pune. Found love of my life and so ready to be with him planning my future. On the other hand lots of kalesh going on in my home. Everyday fights between my mom and dad regarding land etc in which other relatives are also involved. I feel the guilt of being happy. Don't know what to do. Don't know how to move on when so much is going on in my home. I am doing financially well for myself and I am able to survive on my own. But whenever I look at my family I wonder what will happen if tomorrow I have a family if my own. Will I go through the same things. Kind of scared of all the humans.

4mo ago
SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

It's a part of life, you have to taste everything from sweet to bitter, like oatmeal said you do you, let them fight, you just make sure they don't hurt each other too much (in any way)

If you are sure about love of your life then throw this question at him

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
KPMG4mo

❤️thanks stranger

PrancingNoodle
PrancingNoodle

Even Mr Ambani is struggling with his health. Who are you? You can keep on fearing the future ar take leap of faith keeping faith on bagwan.

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
KPMG4mo

I have stopped believing in god sir very early in childhood. :)

PerkyTaco
PerkyTaco

Ignore your family and enjoy your life

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
KPMG4mo

Can't really ignore ... After all I have attachments

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

If you are friends first with your partner, then there would be nothing like that ever. Small fights are part of life. But love between friends is the strongest bond that can never break. But I wonder why you asked such question even.

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
KPMG4mo

Thanks but the question is because what I am seeing in my home is scary. I can fight the world but being in that kind of situation with your own spouse . I would rather be single my whole life.

ZestyDonut
ZestyDonut

You do you.

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
KPMG4mo

❤️

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