Quick disclaimer: These are just observations (From an obvious small sample space) and not generalizations.
So I (M) recently joined Hinge and the amount of profiles of girls having prompt replies as
Not sure if that's the right way to market yourself to the dating pool but I seriously have my questions about how the other gender thinks!
I initially thought girls wrote these answers as jokes, but the frequency at which I'm getting these is diabolical to say the least.
Oh and there's a height filter but not a weight filter. (Hypocritical if you ask me)
What are your experiences as a male using Dating Apps such as hinge?
Once out of desperation and fomo, I also tried dating apps(both bumble and hinge) for one week and yes all the prompts of girls were one of those that I am a yapper, I am a red flag and all.
I got 6 matches on bumble in one week and all of them proved me that why I should not be on dating apps, I asked one of the girl that what she is looking for on bumble and she goes ki "I am looking for long term but if you are from south Bombay then friendship and hookups is also fine", I immediately unmatched her and another girl asked me whether I smoke or not and I said no then she goes ki "I am looking for someone who smokes with me", then I was like why did you right swiped me when I have clearly mention on profile that I don't smoke and she goes that idk you seems cute and fun and hence she didn't saw my full profile, I was like wtf after that I Uninstalled both apps after one week.
On Hinge I did not got any matches in 1 week though.
It's like a pandemic, honestly. But yes, you're right - the more I use the app, the more I want to leave it and try traditional dating approach or heck even stay single. Mind boggling personalities smh
@Logs_reader bhai, I’ve never used any dating apps. Don’t have any account there. Seems like I did the right thing 😅
men should stop treating girl like princess, treat them just humans. And you will see thr change
Just like the job market, you won't treat like a princess but everyone wants that a there will always be some desperate guy willing to do that. :(
But yes, treating equally sure has potential to equalize things :)
a company never sustain without employees, so just upskills yourself... there is mutualism either in company or relationship.. just make yourself irreplaceable.
Aah don't worry about them. They are just use and throw material. Let them enjoy their fantasy world.
They end up destroying their life which they never realise. Their kids and families gets destroyed because of some habit they now can't change.
I recently watched a video, I don't know if we can paste a link in the comment box
https://youtu.be/rVO9TR0A2gg?si=PTs8iceH8Bzn8jtz
Me who never had a girlfriend hooked up to the video link you pasted, maybe to find the excuse of the question why I never made(had) a girlfriend lol.
Never got a chance to use these dating apps. Now, I am feeling old🫤
Add another ones 6. I am a yapper 7. Looking for red flags or i am one 8. One with trust fund 6 ft blue eyes kind of shit i don’t remember 😅
Dating apps are a marketplace, if you don’t like a profile move on, don’t engage. Everyone likes different things and prefer different kinds of relationship dynamics.
some guys may find this kind of profile weird but I am sure there are plenty more who will match with them and treat them the way these girls want to be treated
Oh that's alright. I just wanted to share a small observation I had. :)
Your last point got me(M) 🤣🤣. That's some serious issue.
It is!
Matched with a female VC, got this long ass message from her -
"Hey,
This is a copy pasted templatized message 😛
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