TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

Online dating tricks please!

I(M) 23, using online dating sites from past 4 months.

Hardly 2 matches so far. Heard that I am avg looking from my friends and family genuinely.

I gave up so many times on these sites but when I see nibbas out there. I feel I am underestimating myself a lot.

Guru's here please provide me some dating hacks online. Highly appreciated 🫂

24d ago
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WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Sorry, dating apps aren't for average looking men. Most apps are designed to extract money from men. These apps just capitalize on human desperation.

Also there are a lot of more male users in dating apps compared to female users.

I've interned at a famous dating app and I realized that dating apps aren't for guys like me during interning there.

I'm 5'9" and have a good enough body (gym rat) & sharp face. I get around 10 matches on Bumble weekly whenever I install it. But it's not worth it. The girls I've matched with on there are hyper daters. They aren't intelligent or emotionally mature either. Some are just a psychological mess.

It's better if you stick to finding connections IRL. Dating apps should be your last resort in an age like 23.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

That hit hard. And I agree most of girls there are not emotionally mature by looking at their profiles

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Bro this is a tough situation to be in, I commented on someone's post wo Banda ro rha tha bhai ki date ye hai wo hai, literally and here some guys like us never dated.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

Atleast I am not alone now

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Bro 🥺

QuirkyUnicorn
QuirkyUnicorn

Only problem is that internet simps made mid women think they hot asf

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Am old and out of this market. But looking at my team members and my interaction with people I notice a pattern

  1. Being a man. Your looks do not matter. As long as you are not bald. If then, you have to compensate on the money area.
  2. You do not need to be rich. Normal middle class is enough but you need to be in an aspirational position. Meaning either employed in certain "branded" companies, or living abroad, or having the potential to go abroad or having a desirable qualification..etc..

The Internet has democratized the dating market. So if 10 women and 10 men are there, then 8 of them want only the top 3 men. The bottom 4 are not going to get any match. Their looks, character, money don't matter. It's something men have to accept. The women who didn't get that "top 3" are going to reject everyone.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

OP!

TwirlyMuffin
TwirlyMuffin

I think some women are into bald men too! That might not be as much of a negative:)

PrancingMochi
PrancingMochi

If you are above 8/10 or white . Indian Pussies will flood you , if not - you are just a pervert , hila ke so ja

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Looks to I'm not 8 pkka but I'm white skinned, meine itna actively try nhi kiya but matches to nhi hi aay the mujhe 😅

SleepyPretzel
SleepyPretzel

Start paying for the service in order to get top of the list, simple!

WigglyPretzel
WigglyPretzel

That's a very big misconception. There are a lot of other factors.

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

I’m sorry

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GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

That being said, you have a better chance dating in your circle. Go to parties/events where your friends are inviting people you don’t know

GigglyBagel
GigglyBagel

Online dating apps pe kabhi nhi milega. Try to reach out to friends of friends and ask your friends to introduce you.

SparklyCoconut
SparklyCoconut

Are bhai Dating apps me extortion scam chal raha hai. Havas mitaane se accha hai thodi bhagwaan ki bhakti kar le. YouTube me expose ho raha hai sab.

PerkyBiscuit
PerkyBiscuit
  1. Average looks but aesthetic picture will get you far ahead of competition.

  2. Dont just rely on apps go out ask girls out in respectful way, they appreciate it

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