Tough question. I struggled n i still do sometimes. I think by avoiding/keeping them at bay/keeping them out of our lives?!
You can avoid them but cant supress them.
What if you happen to have leverage on them? What if you share the same roof? What if (I hate saying this, I hope no one goes through this) its your gf whom you once showered with love but has now turned against you? What if its a close friends group that has become jealous of you out of the blue?
At the end it just feels isolated These are the cases that I have seen with people and they are going through a ton of misery.
Agree. But if u see misery, u ll see misery. I am denying there is no sadness, but there are happy couples , families, too and great close knit friends too. We have to choose right ppl along our way. If not, then its better to find better ppl. I am kinda done with holding ppl in life etc etc BS.
thinking of other people like this makes you a negative person as well, focus on what you can do, that's what matters
Have some core beliefs in my mind, if the people around me do not correlate with them, its a sign for me that they don’t have best interests/negativeness for me.
My worth remains same i.e 0 🤣🤣🤣
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