I am penning this post because so far working in corporate I have realised that somehow we all are going through the same shit. Not everyone needs an adventure in life and start a business. Some of us like our stability. But with that stabilty comes loneliness. Everyone in corporate ( talking about bachelors) is looking for meaningful relationship with good sex. Approaching the other person in office is difficult. Half of us don’t believe in marraige but will get married to someone else’s love one day. I dont know what is the solution to this. More importantly I dont even know the problem. But something is missing. I see everyone in the morning wearing badges sipping coffee trying to gather energy just enough to survive the day. There is no gaurantee of job, life and happiness. Somehow we all have become incapable of living. We are just surving. These are mixed thoughts just like my morning mails.
Think about what you want in life.
If you want a relationship then find one. Which is very hard work. You will be rejected many times.
But you will find someone eventually.
But think about what you want first. Why you want it. Will it truly make you happy? What does happiness mean for you.
I gave it a thought, I think thats the whole problem. I am not sure what I want anymore.
I dont have big dreams and when I look at others hustling I feel less of a person sometimes.
Ahh. Don't compare your life view with others. If you feel small then you crave it secretly.
Think about the axis
Money, family,ambition
See where you want to be on each, the biggest you ever want on all of the them
Then plan it out.
And then adjust as you become old.
Also ask some old people, colleagues, parents before you think becausr one thing may feel more important now than it wil be 10 years down the line.
Stay calm with yourself and it is not wrong to be single until you find your perfect soulmate, keep energizing your time in self developments enjoy your own company music create hobbies .cause the same ways I feel so I started filling myself with hobbies or anything which can aid in my good mental health. Love is rare nowadays according my observations so I never allowed myself to be in relationship I do feel so lonely but its ok someday I will find .
Exactly, it is lonely but still better than being in a toxic realationship.
Or everyone needs an adventure in life or a business to start
Well said 👏🏻👏🏻
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