ZestyQuokka

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Women your turn, what is that you seek in your to-be spouse?

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SnoozyUnicorn

Stealth16mo

I was in depression a few years ago due to unexpected events in my personal life ( I don't want to give too many details, but it is related to family. Nothing happened to me) I have fortunately come out of it, but I still take medication because I don't want to relapse. Not being condescending but I have a good profile, I have studied in top tier institutions (iisc) earning well (30lpa), not beautiful but I know how to groom myself. Every guy I meet be it through friends or parents is initially very interested in me, then I tell them about my diagnosis. They straight up ghost me. Most don't even ask questions to know more. TLDR someone with an open mind and doesn't have a prejudice against mental illnesses.

FloatingNugget

Inventurus Knowledge Solutions16mo

We. Seek out perfection in others knowing defects in self, seek a similar person like you with defect which will complete you with understanding , nahi toh Vicky donar jaise halat ho jayegi,

SnoozyUnicorn

Stealth16mo

The Vicky donor metaphor is way off, but yes, that's what I have been doing. Some guys with mental health issues don't wish to marry a girl with similar problems. They say they want a normal wife. I am not judging anyone's choice for a partner. Just saying I don't consider my illness a defect but there is a lack of awareness about mental disorders even amongst educated urban youth.

JumpyHamster

Flipkart16mo

Package

BouncyQuokka

Stealth16mo

😏

JumpyHamster

Flipkart16mo

Brutal honesty bro

TwirlyNoodle

Stealth16mo

Should have similar personality as me. Can't compromise on that. I don't believe in opposite attracts.

FluffyCupcake

Amazon16mo

Honestly, “opposite attracts” is such a bullshit in a relationship, especially after the honeymoon period is over.

TwirlyNoodle

Stealth16mo

This only looks good in movies and books. You don't want to spend life with someone who is very different from you in terms of major aspirations, beliefs and ideology. Compromising means adjusting something for your partner but never your entire personality.

GoofyWalrus

Stealth16mo

Is not spineless.

MagicalQuokka

Stealth16mo

How would you check that?

CosmicQuokka

Paralleldots16mo

Can you please explain a little.

GigglyWaffle

Stealth16mo

Should make money, like me
Should believe in simplicity/minimalist lifestyle, like me
Should respect boundaries not be clingy.
Should have a positive vibe, not always crying or complaining about little things.

Being cool headed, open minded, calm, is a plus.
The taller the better. But not a big deal.

Maybe that's it. 🤷‍♀️

GigglyDonut

Stealth16mo

How's that working out for you?

GigglyWaffle

Stealth16mo

It's hard to meet people and have a meaningful enough exchange to gauge them.

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