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by kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

advice for dating life

Actually I never dated , never had a girlfriend. In school I liked a girl but she rejected me . In college, I found that girls in my class are not compatible ( I mean they have other interests in their life , I have other interests) . And now I will be graduating from college, have a job of 8.55 lpa but never had a girlfriend. I thought I can date in the office but reality hit me that I can't date in my office. Going forward ( after a year ) I am aiming for a remote job . Then I will go back to my village ( I have reasons for that ) . But I fear that I can't get gf there because my village is conservative. Let me tell you that I am a shy guy and I don't believe in this cliche " go out and talk to women" because I can't start talking rubbish just for shake of talking. So please advise what to do ?

DeafeningPanic

Stealth

3 months ago

It is not very clear what your aim is? Do you want to date for the sake of it? Are you looking to settle and get married? what is exactly your idea for dating?

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

Ya , settle and get married

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

main thing is I wanted to have that typical dating life where u date in school college, have lot of sex and either marry or breakup in future

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Bittergourd

Stealth

3 months ago

Build yourself sab moh maya hai bs 😊

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

bhai moh maya nahin hai . biwi is someone that gives you confidence in life , gives u purpose . gives u love

Bittergourd

Stealth

3 months ago

Logo ko wife and marriage matrial ladkiya chahiye bhi to nahi ...very rare men took interest in women with wify character...I personally have seen because I'm very old school thinker in such ways but couldn't find any man for me.

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melancholicOnion

TCS

3 months ago

Bro, you won't get a girl if you're shy. Don't expect them to make the first move. If your intention is just to have sex, seeing a prostitute is the easiest option for you. Just keep in mind, these are not big matters. No one really cares if you are a virgin or not.

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

why can't they like shy guys @melancholicOnion

melancholicOnion

TCS

3 months ago

There are chances but still it's very rare. Most of them prefer guys who are funny and caring. Shy people are often tagged as the boring type.

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K_os

Unemployed

3 months ago

Use apps tinder bumble. Go with frnds with benefits

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

kat gaya bhai mera , transgender ne right swipe kiya hai . udhar bahut bura haal hai . I have tried dating apps

K_os

Unemployed

3 months ago

Bhai filter laga na Women bas

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samosa

Stealth

3 months ago

throughout, you are clearly choosing one thing over another and expecting an outcome in your favour, doesn't work that way

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

what I choosed ?

samosa

Stealth

3 months ago

yes

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switxh

Unnamed

3 months ago

lol. You aren't alone. Most guys face this. They have 0 female friends. Make contact with your office colleagues and one day they'd probably introduce their friends if you're a decent guy. If you have the idea that you want an ideal women( the reason you never made a female friend ) you will never get it. You have to interact with other women because imo women prefer guys who aren't shy. You have to make efforts and fix your dressing sense, hygiene etc. This is enough imo.

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

bro I am hygiene and dressing sense is nomal and I personally maintain a low key profile . I hate showing off

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

@switxh

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speedoflight

Stealth

3 months ago

Check out Prakhar Gupta's channel and YT and learn how to talk to and view girls as normal human beings. there's no other way you're getting sex without taking an interest in their interests (unless you pay for it or something)

Akira

Unemployed

3 months ago

Kaam karo, paise kamao. Sax-sux ke chakkar mein career na dubao. Upskill and reset. You'll be found by someone who likes you for you.

CloudWizard

Stealth

3 months ago

Trust me, if its meant to be destiny will finds its way to you , just keep building yourself & take care of your parents Keep yourself busy in work or hobby ,so that you won't be distracted by these thoughts repeatedly Koi nahi mila toh Arrange Marriage is last & best option, Its that Simple my friend.

OtherArmament

Motherson Sumi Wiring India Limited

3 months ago

Aaj ki raat kese Kategi Ye btao

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

jaise roz kat ti hai , insta scroll karte karte so jayenge . isi tanhai mein jindegi doob jayegi @OtherArmament

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

roz sochta hoon ki mere zindagi mein kuch achha hogi v ki nahin @OtherArmament

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Aurelius

Stealth

3 months ago

I wanna say one thing brother Dating girls is a very easy task. You just need to be yourself and just have some principles which keep with such high standards, It is very fine to be bashed by a girl while talking through chat you can learn from that how to talk to a girl Don't seek their attention most of the girl like men not "Boy" Improve your inner leadership qualities implement and lead where ever you can By following this you can get out of from you shyness and Girls automatically follows you Note: Go to GYM and Be a MAN

KindlyBoat

B2B SaaS

3 months ago

Bro, your CTC is too low - get paid and then get laid! 💰

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

bro , I am not even graduated @KindlyBoat . I am just out of college ( technically not out of college till now )

Mode_Incognito

Cognizant

3 months ago

Cheers bro, lot of similarities!!

kuchbhi123

Student

3 months ago

kya ho jayega usse

Aurelius

Stealth

3 months ago

Don't date that's the advice

WiryDescent

Google

3 months ago

Bro, don't take yourself so seriously. Relax and talk to people as if you are really interested in them. And your salary is not an achievement to brag to your potential partners

PinkHedge

PWC

3 months ago

Trust me finding someone in office is so so hard. Everyones head will be burried in the laptop. But right person does come along. Hope u find someone special soon.

StrictFertilizer

Oracle

3 months ago

You are just a very insecure person with no interpersonal skills. First build yourself physically and mentally. If you are confident you would not have written these words like not-compatible without even speaking to them. You are just coward.

Kappuking

TCS

3 months ago

What did you find hard in the office for dating

Jadugar101

PhonePe

3 months ago

Kyu nahi ho rahi padhayi ?

Jadugar101

PhonePe

3 months ago

lagta hai apne baap ke experience se bol raha hai

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