Can apply for the role of President - Resident Welfare Association in a gated community.

Program Manager

Bahaut chhota soch raha hai. President to the Board hona chahiye isey

Consultant

Founder

Corporate Strategist

Tell him to apply for college instead of startup 😆

Software Developer

Shouldn’t Arjun aim for the eye of the fish 🐠 with the bow? Why only CEO 🧐🧐

Private Equity

Investor

Software Engineer

Lawyer

What? It's too late for Arjun!  
 I am sorry to say, people think of applying to CEOs the moment they are born.  
 /s

I have experience of 27 years being citizen of this country. Can I apply for President or Prime Minister of the country?

Data scientist

Now I think, I wasted my time when I was 2 seconds old, I should have purchased a land somewhere.

Security Analyst

Bro is lowballing by not being in board of directors

And here I am who has no concept of self worth until I fully master a concept

Product Manager

Brand marketing manager

Arjun now knows he messaged biryani entu 😂

Haha no no this is screenshot from twitter.

I’m assuming this is a joke. Who in the right sense thinks or says shit like this lol

I hope it is, that's why added in Memes community

Product Owner

God give me confidence like this 😭

God give me confidence like this 😭- Grapevine

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God give me strength

Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

Since early childhood all I talked, watched and read was Technology. When I got home from school, I worked on C++ and built games by modelling physics, collisions etc. I frequented a ton of online forums for WebGL and other archaic tech that most of you don't even know about.

I knew all about the Silicon Valley, the stories and legends. I learned all about the history of technology and used to work deeply with my father with transistors, ECU/ECMs etc during weekends. 

I thought I knew it all. I thought I was the deal. I remember schooling folks about all of this, making them realise they are dumb as hell. I remember when I stepped into my MS in CS program and attended a club meeting, I realized that I was just like everybody else.

They were all the same as me in hindsight. They knew the same things and lived and breathed the same passion. I knew I wasn't special. For the first time, I suffered ego-death. I thought I was special, and I was not.

This is just a reminder, that you are not special. You are less unique than you think you are. So lose that attitude.

Do you think you are special?

Welcome to Personal Finance's Private Community

My fiancé’s pay is 3x mine. And I feel guilty for not being able to scale up to a respectable pay or career advancement. This is my capacity - I am slow paced and a late bloomer in everything in my life. I feel like I don’t deserve a fiancé with 3x pay as mine and could find someone better than me as I was questioned by my fiancé about my career trajectory. I keep wondering in what way I can contribute my share once we settle. How will I do 50/50 because it doesn’t seem possible to do that. I will have to cut back on all my wants before things turn sour between us due to this financial imbalance. I don’t want money to get in the way of our relationship. I don’t know if anyone feels this guilty for not being able to contribute financially towards their married life. Or am I overthinking all this in my mind. It takes a hit at my self esteem when I see my friends/family around being able to achieve this financial equilibrium with their spouses. It makes me feel inadequate and not as empowered.

I feel guilty as my fiancé’s pay is 3x mine

Analyst

No no I'm not scamming you people or anything.
I'm freshly out of college and still wondering about the path I should take towards my career so as for the time being I'm working as a freelancer.

So any side project if your working on, related to frontend, design or UI/UX in general I can work on it and currently I'm building a chatGpt replica for a client in a MNC company.

So I don't have a proper direction so until I get that I'm good to learn and develop.❤️

I'll build your project for half the price

I used to be a creative guy in my mid 20s. I learned to play a guitar, could sketch pretty well and also used to work out pretty regularly.
Lift has changed drastically in the last 2 years and I now find myself no time to spend on my hobbies. I tuned 30 recently and have been under slight shock that my responsibilities are bound to increase due to family and work.
I had no responsibility till now and had lived a care free life.
Now that I am engaged, I've realized that I need to dedicate my time for my family, my well being, my upskilling and also some to to evaluate my finances. This has also made me realize that I won't have enough time for my hobbies/interests. I badly want to learn to play an electric guitar and the fact that I won't have much time terrifies me as I need to make a choice of doing something that I love (learn to play a guitar) or doing something that helps me to live a life and pay off my bills which basically is my full time job.
I might have a child in another 4-5 years and the responsibility of having a child terrifies me even more. 
I don't want to make a choice between being there for my child and being there for my work.
I'm not sure if I'm over thinking or just being realistic but not having enough time for yourself due to work and family has been bothering me lately. 
I'm 30 and the fact that responsibilities are bound to increase in my life terrifies me.
Is this a common and a normal feeling or is this unnatural?

Folks who are working in your 30s, do you still find time to work on your hobbies? If yes, how are you able to manage your family life, work life, upskilling, working out and making time for your hobbies?

Product Designer

I just need a little break. Want to introspect on what I want in life. Have not travelled a lot, want to do that. 

I have a good enough run way to sustain for 4-5 months. 

Do you think it's a good idea? 
Has anyone taken a break for a quarter or more?

Is it a good idea to resign without an offer?

Self-esteem over everything.

Data engineer

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

Hi Guys, I'm an SDE and I have this weird problem where I stress too much when some work is given to me which I don't understand.

Basically I'm not scared of high workload, as long as I know how to do it. Because then I know IT WILL BE DONE, I just have to work to finish it.

But when I get stuck on a problem, I DONT KNOW IF IT WILL BE DONE, I just keep thinking about it even if I close my laptop. The more I think, the more scary the problem becomes and then I start thinking if it continues and I'm not able to deliver more work, I might get fired and then during background verification for the next company, they will see I was fired and then no one will hire me. Basically my thoughts spiral out of control and make my life miserable to the point where I don't feel hungry.

If I'm confident I'm very confident, I feel like i can do any problem but when I see myself failing multiple times, i lose my mental strength

I need help and I want to improve this nature, not get stressed when things go south. Do you guys feel the same or know how to handle it

Any books or words of wisdom or thought process that you follow which helps you deal with job related work stress will be extremely helpful.

Strange work anxiety

why do you believe in some higher power ?

People believe God exists because they need someone to blame for their own failures/incompetencies

Senior software engineer

Seeing colleagues getting promoted while your contribution goes unnoticed. Working on projects that none of your peers care about. Figuring out the balance between work and personal life. Regret of ignoring physical health due to work.

There are endless reasons that can trigger the imposter syndrome. How are you guys coping up with this?

How do you guys cope up with the imposter syndrome

I am 33M, started working at 20. Earned 87LPA when I was dropped off in June 23. I am a very responsible person who had taken care of everything in the family for quite some time. My parents and relatives and everyone else who know me well, know this and kost have appreciated this at some point.
My sister separated from her husband 6 months after my marriage and had been living with me and my wife since then till COVID hit.
My mother has anger issues and my father is very obedient to her. I love my parents and they loved me I think.
Post COVID I moved to my hometown (because family) and things started going downhill. My mother will almost entire day find every faults in my wife and share it with everyone with an angry tone. I just listened to her initially for 2 years but at times I told her that it's enough.
Now she has started fighting me. After the fight I would go and apologize to her knowing that it's not my fault just to make things right.
This time when my mother fought with me she taunted me that you will come back and apologize. This hurted me even more than the fight.
Now I am not going back to apologize and she's escalating it every day. Convinced my father and my eldest sister(happily married) that I am a bad son. Shares messages like "maa bap ko pareshan krne vale bachho ko kya fal milta hai" in WhatsApp groups.
She has even asked me to vacate home. I am unemployed at the moment and I told her I will when I have a job.
I don't know how to deal with it. I can't convince people in the family that she has anger issues.

My parents hate me

Hey guys, 
I have this weird anxiety whenever I'm not able to understand the work that is given to me or If I get too complicated work. 

Basically i'm not stressed even if my workload is high, as long as I know exactly what to do

And if I get very little workload but the work is very complicated, it stresses me out to the point where I don't feel hungry at all.

If I'm confident, i'm very confident and when I get stressed out, even simple problems look very complicated and makes my life hell.

Do any of you guys feel the same and if you do, how do you handle this weird nature

Weird office anxiety

I was watching the Doctor Strange movie. When Stephen asked "Are you happy?", it made me spiral. 

To be honest, I don't know if I'm happy. I have nothing to look forward to in my life. Well anyways....

Are you happy?

[Serious] Are you happy?

I started my Career in June 2018 and have switched 2 companies as of now. It's been 5 years but I haven't seen a single promotion so far.

But when I look at people on LinkedIn they are team leaders now.

And this is impacting my mental health as well. When I am back at home i still can get this fact out of my head.

Getting tensed looking at my career graph.

Research Specialist

Have u ever resigned without any offer in hand?

If yes what was the reason and how things went ahead??

Resignation without another offer

Senior Consultant

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

Hi, Currently I work in Tool Design(Jigs and Fixture design) with 3 YOE. I am good in 3D model creation and Creating drawings. I use Creo Parametric for this. I want to make career in Robotics. How can I move to Robotics field. Please let me know your suggestions.

Career in Robotics

Mechanical Engineer

Hello Seniors
Can you tell me how you prepared yourself for the interviews
Any server subreddit where I can find 
Someone for mock interviews

I can take mocks with my friends, but the real issue is  my anxiety spikes and everything goes in vain when taking an actual interview 

I have lost 2 opportunity till now because I wasn't able to explain my projects

Pls help

And in return I will give back to the community by helping my juniors
Once I reach that level

Thanks in advance

2025' Student here, Pls help me with mock interviews

I think the current phase in my life is the lowest I am already PIPed by swiggy and I have broken up with my gf.

Feeling like my life has reached the end. Can't sleep at all specially after the break up. Now I regret for blocking her atleast I should have waited until getting into some company. But now I don't want to go to her due to some personal reasons.

It feel sucks. I am not able to focus on interview preparation. I am not in depression but my mental health is shit right now and gets headache daily.
Please help me shall I consult some doctor for this or is this okay. I don't have much friends that's why I am asking here

I genuinely need help

God give me confidence like this 😭

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