Software Engineer

Analyst

Ye sab kya sikha rahe hai EY me🤦‍♂️

Growth Manager

ye sab hota h but koi bolna nae chata  
 just like hike and increment  
 tera bhai bata rha Sikh k

Finance Consultant

Product Manager

Bhai ya toh prem hi kar lu ya yeh sab bakchodi kar lu. 
 Bc prem nhi mazaak bana diya hai.

Aisi faltu cheezo ke liye time nhi hai mere paas.

Software Developer

Yeh sab hindi mein bole toh chalega na? Thappad nhi maregi na?

Data analyst

Make her chase you… (Most men learn this too late) 🚀  1. PushPull Technique 🎯 Engage her in a way that keeps her on the edge. Compliment, then playfully take it back: 🗣 "You're pretty cute... fo...

Make her chase you… (Most men learn this too late) 🚀

1. Push-Pull Technique 🎯
Engage her in a way that keeps her on the edge. Compliment, then playfully take it back:
🗣 "You're pretty cute... for someone who still hasn't beat me in pool."

2. Master the Art of Subtlety 🎭
Tease her with playful stories. Respond in a way that leaves her wanting more:
🗣 "Haha, you're the main character, huh?"

3. Tease Her Flirting 😏
If she flirts, play it cool:
🗣 "Oh, so you do think I’m cute. Took you long enough!"
Be unfazed and confident.

4. Use Silence to Build Anticipation 🤐
Don’t respond immediately. A playful silence keeps her wondering and engaged.

5. Play With Her Ego 😈
Compliment in a slightly backhanded way:
🗣 "You're almost as cool as me—almost."
Keeps the dynamic fun and flirty!

HOW TO PLAYFULLY TEASE ANY WOMAN! 👠♀️🙆‍♀️👩‍❤️‍👩

HOW TO PLAYFULLY TEASE ANY WOMAN! 👠♀️🙆‍♀️👩‍❤️‍👩- Grapevine

Unrelated/pseudo-related info:

She is really fond of caffeine (Frontend developer rituals). She is like one of those coffee geeks. She has a spam account specially dedicated to various kinds of coffees around the globe. She also has a scrap book about various coffee beans.  Kinda absurd (creeped me out initially when I saw it in her bag, she keeps them in those CID waale little  specimen zip bags) but its her thing and I value her quirks. 

I am not really a fan, but I do enjoy cold coffee once in a blue moon when the mood strikes.

But for her, I would. 

Thankfully, she isnt into tea, because I just HATE chai (might trigger a lot of people, but it tastes like cardboard to me for some reason).

Every time I get stumbled by coffee aroma around me, it immediately reminds me of her voice. 

Ok enough about my weaknesses. Now give me solutions.

Can I ask my crush to "casually" join me for a cup of coffee after 6-7 interactions? Will it sound too despo? What if it gets too late if I wait?

Data engineer

Hello, fellow men reading this. I have tried my best to include all my learning and those of my friends. I’ve written this as informally as possible.

Let’s get right into it.

Functionality matters as much as features; your personality will matter as much as your looks.

Your looks or pictures on the app will act as a hook, something that will stop girls from swiping left on the spot.

Looks

- Try going to the gym after work or college, and aim for a lean body. This will bring about the most significant change in you over time and will also encourage a good diet and discipline. Everyone likes a fit and athletic person.
- Experiment as much as possible with your appearance. Look up different hairstyles according to your face shape and A/B test with your barber.
- Consider getting a frame of specs suited to your face shape. For example, a square frame can really bring out your jawline compared to an oval frame.
- Wash your face twice a day, use sunscreen, and drink a lot of water. Your face is how everyone judges you, and if you are glowing and smiling, people will be more positive towards you.
- Maintain proper personal hygiene.

Pictures

- Please don’t fall into the trap of generic guitar/dog pictures. You want your pictures to represent who you are as a person. If you are into scuba diving, include a picture of it. If you like books, get a picture from a bookstore.
- Experiment with different poses and locations. Iterate and iterate to see what works.
- Don’t forget to smile. The last thing you want is for girls to assume you are too serious.
- Your pictures need to be a mirror of you. For example, I smile and laugh 24/7, so all my images are goofy.

Dating Wiki for Men

Hi I’m an above average looking and average height guy. I’ve been looking out for a serious relationship for years now and it really sucks. I mean career wise, I’m doing great. I’ve a stable career with a good car and my own house. Something that women consider for serious relationships turning into a marriage. 

I’m also very religious, super good at heart, loyal, caring basically too good to be true. I’m so loyal that I stop looking at other women even at talking stage. Send flowers randomly etc etc. 

Now the problem is, apparently if you don’t play mind and manipulation games, or basically be toxic, you won’t get a good partner. 

Every woman out there says she’s looking for 90s love and nice guys who care for her etc etc. Then why are people like me single? Not only me i know many men who are good at heart being played by such women. Why are you lying girls?

Why dating sucks these days? (also a Rant)

How to hookup in Bangalore

Teasing

Software Test- QA

I want to meet someone significant in Bangalore and I’m 24 M never dated, can someone tell some spots to meet the single ladies
Thanks in advance

Dating scene

Started my first relationship with a girl 2 weeks ago.  Requesting people to share wisdom on how to proceed. We went on a date today, it was great and we talk daily before sleeping. Consider me a noob.

Started a Relationship

Hey , I want to start a infotainment YouTube channel ( info + entertainment+ facts ) like dhruv rathee / Gaurav Thakur or a travel vlog channel along with my work.
I am good in photography videography and editing.
But I think competition is high in this genre and there are a lot of yt channels of diff fields also.
Please suggest as if , I am going good or I should change the domain ( if I'm wrong , please suggest some different domain/ genre ,  which are unique , interesting, evergreen ).

Need advice on starting a youtube Channel .

Frontend Engineer

Welcome to Confessions's Private Community

I was having a good time, while drinking with 2 of my best friends who were with me since engineering, and one of my friends suggested that I need to modify the way I speak when I speak to women who I might be interested in, as I am someone who do not have much of exposure to interaction with womenkind. I had a passive argument that I try to speak my mind instead of modifying it to appeal them or make it right in their way. He said that ‘this is the reason you are single’. I felt bad, not because he said this but he has little understanding of me on how I express myself. 


I always believe that, if i try to butter my words or convey the things that come to mind in a more appealing way, then the girl I’m trying to be with will subscribe to the version of the way I am expressing my feelings rather than the way I am feeling. So it will end in a disaster any way.


Am i wrong here, what should I do?

I’ve never been in a relationship before so please suggest me it my thought process is wrong

Is it wrong to speak my mind??

Hey Folks, 
I am a 22Y M, and want to improve my dating life. I am an extrovert person and can talk to opposite genders very well. 

The only issue I face is to build a romantic connection. I suck at that. Don't know why, but flirting makes me feel cringe. 

Something about me:
1. I got my first girlfriend in the 8th standard. Dated for a year. 

2. In class 9th, I experienced love for the first time and ngl I still feel the same for that girl. We dated for two years. 

3. In the 11th and 12th standard, I had 1 girlfriend each standard but couldn't continue for xyz reason. 

4. I then last dated in my third year (last of 2021), but long distance was not my thing. 

5. Since, then I feel cringe whenever I try to flirt and don't want any love shove, because I never felt the same, I felt for that girl in class 9th.

6. Since, my last breakup I am only able to fulfil my physical needs but now I want to change that and find someone with whom I can build a strong connection


So folks here, who know the ultimate love game here. Please help me out.

[THREAD] Flirting 101: The Dating Game

Long post; activity required

Since I increased sharing Adulting (not that adult) posts,
People connected 
People felt good
People felt bad
People were hurt
People realised 
People learnt 
People realised 

Unintentionally, people were hurt, I didn't mean to hurt anyone, but to just share my learnings/experiences with everyone so it might help.

So, this weekend, I've come up with a better picture (& simple).

To men, hope this simple image is related, boosts your heart beat and make you blush/smile (share with us your memory)

To women, you just know how to charm your man (assuming the bigger percentage like to wear a saree)

Once in a while core-memory activity:

All Men: Ask your partner to wear a saree you'd like to see in today 
Extrovert Men: Ask your father/grandfather how your mother/grandmother looked the first time they saw
Introvert Men: Just look for parents wedding album and see how beautiful your mom is.
Single Men: Take learnings on how to drape a saree for the future (from where? youtube?) (don't cry that you're single)

Women: why don't you charm your man in surprise and have a date at home, maybe?
Single Women: charm the single boys or maybe your crush

Also all men: let's remember our crush in saree 😌

Also some genius women: please teach men how to drape a saree in the comments 






P.S: I will not stop sharing learnings/experiences, if that also means Adulting content, as well, but in better ways.

P.S: If you've done any of the above activities, do comment ;)

So the recent Adulting content

I believe in deep conversation with good sense of humar. How can one make the relationship strong considering conversation, making the other person also open up and create a strong bond? Not just in the beginning but always one you know everything about each other.

How to keep the relationship sparkly with the conversation

RPA Developer

Need Dating Tip: Drop the line you used to pull her or the line he used to pull you.

It's our 4th date and I am literally running out of content !

Suggest some conversation starters for her

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

So i am software engineer working remotely and situated at my hometown (Tier 2) , after signing off day I go to a public park daily except Sunday’s for run there i found a girl who comes to the same park with her dog for max 10 min and then leave i am highly confident she is giving the positive sign that she is interested but i am damn sure she will not initiate . I go there  we have long eye contact none of us utter a word then she leaves . I feel sad daily that i have missed that chance to speak i need help how should i approach her mind you there are other people too have walk in the park

I really want to speak to her and i am that introverted man when it comes girl

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