What qualities in anyone tell they are genuinely a good person?

[hypothetical question] Imagine if you had an option to custom make your partner, what qualities would you add ? let your thoughts run free/wild, it's a hypothetical scenario anyway

Most corporate jobs tend to make you less of a human being. The pressure and competition make you shout at your subordinates, backstab your colleagues, and play politics. No matter what comes your way, don't give in to pressure. being a good human being is not a barrier to success, it's actually a key component of sustainable, meaningful success. When we prioritize empathy, kindness, and integrity, we build strong relationships, foster a positive work culture, and create a legacy that truly matters. Don't stop being a good human being; your progress won't be affected. Success that makes everyone hate you will be of little value. After all, success at the cost of relationships and respect is a hollow victory." Keep shining, you are making it easier for others to find their way.

I mean how do you start trusting people again? Most of the people that I have around me turned out to be an ass. I could never fill the social void. My heart keeps yearning for social validation (I am not in the mood of hearing that happiness should stem from within etc etc, afterall humans are social beings, we need people to survive. We thrive on trust. Being alone never helps in the long run, I have learnt this the hard way) Its so easy to confuse politeness with kindness. I know it comes through practice but I have been extremely paitent. I cant filter people. I know its a plain rhetoric. But would love to know your perspectives.

A couple of other posts are on what unmarried men / women look for in their potential spouses. Married folks, based on your experience, what advice would you give people as they are going through the journey of figuring out the right partner.

Write about a time you made someone feel very nice. Hopefully it can be a collection of ideas that others can take forward. If somehow a few people do something nice as a result, that would be powerful. To start with an example: Bought a laptop for my grandfather because he wanted to continue working post 60. Helped him learn Excel, Gmail, Chrome browsing over many days. He really picked it up, and works as a consultant for new companies in the industry he worked all his life.

Can someone who’s studied MS Dhoni in more detail speak more about how he got where he did in life? He seems to be extremely calm and composed and a really successful leader at whichever team he leads. I was shook by how calm he was throughout the CSK winning final. How did a guy from such a small town end up becoming such a big legend even though he doesn’t have Virat or Sachin level talent.