Thoughts on marrying early, at say 25
This question is for folks who have married early or have friends who have gotten married in their early 20s. What are your thoughts on this front?
Yesterday afternoon, a girl I'm seeing proposed to me. It's arranged, she likes me, I like her, and most importantly, our parents like each other.
I'm not able to sleep now, thinking about what mom said. She was so happy, went into a lot of thoughts, and started remembering my childhood mischievous acts.
That, is what hit me hard. I still play mischief with my mom. Wherever she asks me to get groceries, I'll take a bribe, a piece of jaggery. I still lie down in her lap whenever I go home, or whenever she visits me. Dad still says "you're a kid, don't even know how to save". He never let me pay from my pocket.
Now I'm thinking, that little me, who always played around mom, who still plays around, grew up? Grew up enough to become an adult and marry?
Wow. Time flew by. Did you also feel the same way before marriage?
I know this is just a phase everyone goes through at some point, but man, this feeling is something special.
You are lucky to have a partner who loves you. Enjoy the times and maintain the similar relationship also with your Parents continuously.
Yes, This is a golden phase for you and make most of it ♥️
So happy for you man :)
Damm boi, you won at life bro 🧿🫂
From a loving family to a loving partner. You’re still young, and you’ll continue to be till you believe so. Rejoice as these are also gifts of life to your inner child.
Don’t forget to workout though, key to staying young.
On a serious note, things will start changing post mrg coz your priorities will now be shared. For a balanced peaceful life, shift to a near by place so that you can take care of your parents and the upcoming new family. You might not like the suggestion though but several years down the line you'll realise.
All the best anyways🍻
This question is for folks who have married early or have friends who have gotten married in their early 20s. What are your thoughts on this front?
Grapeviners, can you, with all honesty convince a non-believer like me into getting married and having children. If you do, my parents will send a million blessings your way.
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