Wait hear me out.
Women have the ability to carry children, she needs men to initiate the process. Technically she should have more power. She could use and throw (not in that sense) men based on what she liked/ wants But we only have f*ckboys who do that
Who made this difference come into play and why
Reality is - Women are the higher gender. Always have been.
And the scenario you mention - women do it way more than men these days. You'll find plenty of single men, but try finding a single decent looking female.
I am a single decent looking (I guess) female. And I am not using and throwing men.
Here, you have an exception to your theory. so it is doesn’t fit everyone
Did I mention that every women is doing f*boi thing these days? Did I mention that every decent looking female is single?
No and no.
Ofcourse there will always be exceptions to every single theory. But we look at general trend - not anecdotal evidence. And for that - look up the dating app statistics and match rate by gender.
Monotheistic religions are the primary cause for moulding that social behaviour. By definition there was only one God - Him. Her was always secondary. Relatively mild distinction in the earlier religious texts but gets acute with progressive iterations of the same concept.
Polytheists (aka early Pagans) don't have the same challenges and you can see equality, if not women centric and women driven societies all throughout the world.
Yea religion could also be a factor. But do you say Hinduism are polytheists? They worship men and women gods. Though things are more or less same
Don't want to name names :) It's a sensitive part of peoples identity and mental makeup.
Polytheists are polytheists and you know who they are, but now the global cultural and moral override is driven by whats originated in the west.
Thence, Fuckbois, Stud vs Sluts, etc.
Assuming the space of modern dating/relationships (not overall power spheres), my observations-
Women do have power when it comes to dating/casual flings. Demand supply is skewed towards men wanting this a lot more (read a quote somewhere that the number of days a man goes without sex is directly proportional to the things he becomes willing to do for a woman). This is why you see so many friend-zoned dudes.
When it comes to marriage/serious relationships, men have power again because of demand supply. (Men are in no hurry and do not really have a biological clock).
Also men tend to mature much later emotionally (some never do). Hence the preference for short term relationships/flings. Biologically as well- women become more attracted after mating, men tend to become less attracted once the heat is off 🫨
The modern tech stack is only compounding the issue since men who know they are attractive can easily find a willing and large pool of single females on dating apps. And men, being dumb and shallow, have the faithfulness inversely proportional to their options
Itna galat kaise soch liya.
Women have a higher body count then men on average so technically they are using and throwing guys around.
And the power thing, well that evolved due to the hunter/gatherer dynamic of our ancestors
And about Society in general, although we still live in a patriarchal society but women do hold significant soft power which gets overlooked because a small percentage of moronic dudes are too loud
Higher body count? Let's not dull the average with world, for India it definitely isn't the case
India is a weird case. In some regions and sections it will still be true. Rest of the country is well due to suppression. But given an equal playing field you can argue that it will always be favoured for women.
I always feel that women are like Carol Denvers in Captain Marvel, always suppressed in such a way that they themselves doesn't know about their full potential.
I have no answer to why this situation is prevailing or why it is happening. But what I think could have happened is that, they were having equal, if not more, prominence earlier and were expected to focus on self during certain circumstances (maybe child birth, periods, etc). Over time, this became tied on to religion/caste to instill fear, and enable them to do it. This further got worse from there leading to almost everything being male dominated (and they would try to have it that way everywhere). And it continues in the form of suppression/oppression, which continues to evolve.
I couldn't think of any other logical explanation as well - although this entire thing still lacks logic. I know a lot of people who believe that women are for sexually satisfying men, and for reproduction. I feel very bad for what's happening.
Fortunately, I understand that Men and women are equal (don't take it out of context). But I believe that women can get more done if they're determined. Let's hope that situation changes soon.
Completely agree, the shift is happening slowly and steadily. The society will heal if nothing more
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