How would you live your life if you don't have any family/social responsibilities?
what changes would you make ?
by Immigrating to a new country and starting a new life. Sick of this scarcity, struggle for every single fucking thing from getting a entry in local train, then slogging at work like donkey and then realising some MBA asshole will dictate your careers, then you think of becoming that asshole by getting masters but again fucking competition there, then wondering why the fuck am I paying taxes on your commute back to home in packed local train like a cockroaches, then struggle to get quality food, quality water and quality air, then again struggle to go to sleep and the Final struggle to wake up
But being the only child of my family and being their retirement fund is binding me here.
Sure other developed countries also have a competition but not to the extent of India.
No family = no responsibility = no purpose of life = no living just existing until a person finds a higher calling
samosa
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3 months ago
my question was simple
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This only happens in dreams. Your parents won’t let you live such a good life. They’ll be like humne shaadi karke suffer kiya hai ab tu bhi bhugat is narak ko.
Indian parents are selfish.
Not enough people realise this. It's not about getting you married.
Indian parents (till our generation) have led a life of scarcity (pre 1991 scarcity). They "performed their duties" of raising children and whenever they felt their children were actually cracking the lottery of upward social mobility through education, they sacrificed everything else in their miserable lives and overindexed on their child's education.
Reason: child is the ticket to upward social mobility
Same reason why they keep poking their noses in their child's adult life. India does not understand the concept of the child becoming an adult. Reasons are very selfish in the garb of altruistic intentions. And the entire society drinks this Kool Aid.
Their version of responsibility and ours greatly varies. Even though people with comfortable lifestyle, their parents too crave for a lifestyle where society massages their ego !!!
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WolfgangMozart
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3 months ago
I'm living that life. Parents are well off, and I'm single and live alone.
Every day, I just eat, do office work, watch TV, read books, listen to music, and sleep. That's more than enough to keep me occupied in life. 😅
I hope that I'll be able to continue this same daily routine till the day I die of old age. Wouldn't be a bad life at all. 😄
HopefulTv
Stealth
3 months ago
How old are you now if I can ask
WolfgangMozart
Stealth
3 months ago
Sure, I'm in my mid-40s
I would have managed the traffic on Marathahalli bridge. Somehow I think that would have a much better impact on the whole world than anything else I could do. 😂
Assuming i have enough money then i like to explore new places, people, culture, food etc. like spending a year in some random place and then switch to other place/country
BiryaniEnthu
Stealth
3 months ago
I aspire to live this life.
Not taking on responsibilities I am not cut out for, whatever society may say
I wish to live like you, but they seem to have the brahmastra " emotional blackmail " 🥺 .
BiryaniEnthu
Stealth
3 months ago
Fighting that since decades
UnselfishInstant
Stealth
3 months ago
I would spend more time on spiritual activities. Doing seva, etc.
criticalresourceF99
Stealth
3 months ago
Doing random 15 day activities every month will keep you going without boring in life
unpocoloco
Stealth
3 months ago
How to pull that off while managing your job?😂
criticalresourceF99
Stealth
3 months ago
Job itself keeps you busy. But since no commitments you still have a lot of time to do things in life
ShortChallenge
Stealth
3 months ago
Life could be enjoy till 50 or 60's thereafter you would need someone who sit beside you...so this is also one part of reality of life.
Looking at the state the world is it's going to be a lot worse. By 2055 euthanasia would probably be legal, if not go to a country where it is legal, donate organs and rest in peace. Till then enjoy life to the fullest.
ChefGroot
Stealth
3 months ago
Then what's the point of living that life.....
Humans feel satisfaction when pushing against a resistance i.e. you will feel satisfied only when you have a purpose which you are pursuing.
This psychology is seen and used from micro to global scale. For example the leveling system in games makes them most addictive as you are constantly grinding towards a well defined goals. Another example is portrayal of white youth in fight club where young purpose less young people just need a purpose to be united.
That being said, if you are aware of above you should be able to bypass this wiring of your psychology and lead a pretty amazing life without kids and family as you can definitely have other purposes.
Spartan101
Stealth
3 months ago
Of course.... my life has a very small component of familial and social intricacies(importance wise)
i will leave the country and will travel whole world like nomad and then if i feel like living more then i will live somewhere in small country probably like new zealand or similar kind of place
unpocoloco
Stealth
3 months ago
You're missing the money part here😅
well, that's the most important part
but if you really gotta see the world and just travel like traveler and not tourist then you can in very minimum you just have to be adaptable and resourceful
few months ago i actually tried to do this and actually live for 2 days without spending more than 100 rs and i was on trip for more than 15 days in uttarakhand, also outside india there are majority of people who use couchbase and similar apps but india very less so i guess i know a way if i really want to be just traveler and there are gigs everywhere on those places and no one is going to judge you also!
i got inspired by this ted talks
https://youtu.be/R7vmHGAshi8
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Travel, buy expensive clothes, car, etc . Basically live a extra lavish lifestyle
For me, it depends a lot on the financial situation. If that's no constrain and have nothing to prove to nobody and there is no point in making more wealth, then I'm packing my bags and travel whenever wherever I want. I'll connect more with nature. Find peace in solitude or with like minded people. Understand how the world works in my own way, be curious and explore. Do something to make an impact. It can be helping someone who's suffering in this societal pressure. Take risks more often to live my dreams, learn awesome ninja skills. Grow a Forrest if not a garden. Make time for myself and others who matter. Move away from cities. Then slowly give up all materialistic things and try to be grounded and find inner peace. I still wish to be that financially stable one day in this lifetime to live a sustainable, hobby-driven life of peace, despite the social responsibilities that I can't escape.
Joydeath
Stealth
3 months ago
Kendrick had something to say bro
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