SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala

Regret going on a date with a Haryanvi girl 👫🏻 ...

Last Friday I went on a date with a girl from Gurgaon and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I was apprehended by her brother's friend at Ambience Mall. How? We were having a milkshake from Keventer's where some guy randomly pops out and starts enquiring about what we were doing.

The thing escalated and he said he will call police. I got scared. Then he motioned for someone, and that guy started misbehaving with us as well. It was becoming very stressful and I asked , "Tum chahte kya ho?" He was like, "Mhaare doston ko bhi thoda Milkshake Wilkshake pilao bhai." (Get milkshakes from KLeventers for our friends too). I was like, "Huh?" He demanded cash and said that he will get it himself. I gave them all cash I was carrying, some 2500 rupees and ran away. I think the girl was in on it too.

What should I have done?

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BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow
IBM4mo

Did she even said sorry for all of this stupid drama , if no yes she was a part of this , if you met her through dating app please report it and drop even mail .

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

This ^

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala
EY4mo

@KyaPtaKyaChalRaha She did say sorry. But not long before blocking me.

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

I don't think you could have done anything different.

But consider this as a narrow escape and from the next time please be extra careful when going on a date.

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato

Issn't a mall, a public place, perfect for first dates? Just curious because even I prefer going to a mall.

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Yes that's a good place in general but unfortunately there's always a Tom and Jerry type chase between scamsters and victims.

Day by day they are getting advanced so anyone would have to proceed more carefully.

In his case next time, he can probably have his friends nearby or he can focus more on some potentially suspicious things about his date partner profile and behaviour which he might have ignored this time by giving a benefit of doubt.

What should I have done?

You ran You did the right thing. As a reward here is your free hoodie-

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala
EY4mo

@Elon_Musk Thank you Musk sahab

JazzyPenguin
JazzyPenguin

I would say- refuse to give them what they ask. You have done nothing wrong. Even if police comes, what can they do? You are in middle of a crowded place, they can’t harm you.

When we submit to the likes of these scamsters, we encourage them to keep dothings like this.

It was a safe setting for you to simply refuse and complain the nearby mall security.

FluffyBiscuit
FluffyBiscuit

Yeah. This. I don't understand why others are saying cash deke sahi kia.

BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow
Student4mo

That works if you have multiple people around you who know you.

Otherwise they'll just file a case alleging you outraged her modesty.

SnoozyJellybean
SnoozyJellybean

Bhai inki gend mein hath dedeta…you should’ve said ki call the police. This is molestation, you didn’t forced the girl to come with you and you and her are both mature enough to take decisions. Bro never get afraid of such fraudsters.

JazzyUnicorn
JazzyUnicorn
HCL4mo

What if girl was a part of this too. Or she gets scared that this thing would escalate and she would switch sides. And then you know how laws in India are...
In OP's case, he just got scammed..

SnoozyJellybean
SnoozyJellybean

Bro…buddy must have records with him..like chats. That’s enough to prove that she was not forced to come with him. It was her own will See brother….these people consume only those who get afraid easily and surrender themselves and run. If you’ve not done anything wrong you should not fear any living entity on this earth. It’s your confidence and your believe which make these people weak else they’ll eat you whole easily.

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