Being debt free. Especially, the people who doesn't come from any generational wealth. 
  
 Nobody boasts about this openly. Because in our society buying things from debt is deemed cool.

I've been debt free most of my life but i think managing debt well is also a valuable skill. Brings risk, but also rewards. Can't grow without risks.

Generalist

Too much generalisation. Debt is good as long as you manage it well.

Product Manager

Analyst

Welcome to Confessions's Private Community

What's something that some people have that they don't realize is a huge flex?

What's something that some people have that they don't realize is a huge flex?- Grapevine

I’m sure all of us are above average at at least one thing. It could range from making a mean Maggi to playing an instrument to making new friends to flirting to anything else. What’s yours? 

I like researching in depth about financial products and have a good working knowledge of common topics such as tax, mutual funds, insurance. 😊

What’s your superpower?

I allegedly have a photographic memory that amazes and creeps my peers simultaneously.  
  
 Downside? 
 Can't sleep most of time as I have HD recordings of all my regrets and rejects. Ignorance is a bliss.

Software Engineer

Growth Manager

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

Let me explain, managers or senior folks who reply/slack/email or do any form of communication outside working hours and especially over weekends… I hate it. If u do it without the counter party explicitly expressing such urgency then you are way worse. 

Just because their current lifestyle or situation allows them to do it… They do it without a second thought. They do not realize that this sets the benchmark or expectations for others who may not be able or like to do same. 

You might say they’re not coercing others to do it then what’s the harm? Well this little thing is what sets the chain reaction to unhealthy WLB. The stakeholders or their heads get the wrong impression and create unhealthy expectation from others. This is just a rant and if u are such a person… Stop doing it without thinking of its unintended consequences.

Hate can do attitude

Haan toh bhai tu mat kar 
 They reply at a time that works for them- you set the right expectations for yourself. Unke response time se teri expectation setting kyu change hogi?

Marketing Manager

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I stumbled upon some cool facts about how programmers show off their skills, so thought of asking on grapevine on how do you guys flex as programmers?

How do programmers Flex?

Orchid with 200 trees, 40y old.

Will sleep, soak sun and read(bucket list) here after Layoffs.

What's your layoff scene? R u afraid 😳

Stay strong and keep a back up :D

Got a place to lay upon after layoff.

Consultant

Senior Consultant

After struggling for achieving my monthly Target we've finally at the finish line. 

Tomorrow according to my plan we'll be achieving the monthly target!

It's gonna be fun day Tomorrow 

#NeverStop

Good Day again at the Office

Associate

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Why do kids who go to US for undergrad criticize IIT kids?

Program Manager

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And, would you prefer standing out from the crowd or just end up being one among them?

Thoughts?

Everyone's Flexing 7-8 Figure Salaries, But The Real Question Is What's Your Bank Balance Right Now?

What’s something obvious for everyone, but you only just realized?

Welcome to Business Roles's Private Community

What's the biggest misconception people have about your job?

Me and my wife are 30 years old software engineer with no kids. Draw 7 lac a month please some yearly bonus. We invest 2 lac a month combined into equity market through mutual funds. 

Expenses: 1.5 lac a month including everything, lives in Bangalore in good society, owns a car, don't thing much before spending. 

Still after everything left with 3 lakhs every month in bank account. Not sure how to use that. We both don't have any fancy "shauk" where we can spend and hence don't have an urge to earn more. 

Any suggestions???

Post tax 7 lac a month. Double income no kids, but not sure what do with all the money.

Hey - we are also similar to you. Would strongly suggest finding something you’re passionate about. 
  
 For us (primarily me) - got a dog, took a 6 month sabbatical, travelled to 30+ countries in this time, left job to pursue startup idea, spend time with parents, learn language, improve fitness, learnt some coding, etc 
  
 It’s a pretty good position to be in - just explore I’d say

Strategy & Operations

Software Developer

Hey Folks, 
I am a 22Y M, and want to improve my dating life. I am an extrovert person and can talk to opposite genders very well. 

The only issue I face is to build a romantic connection. I suck at that. Don't know why, but flirting makes me feel cringe. 

Something about me:
1. I got my first girlfriend in the 8th standard. Dated for a year. 

2. In class 9th, I experienced love for the first time and ngl I still feel the same for that girl. We dated for two years. 

3. In the 11th and 12th standard, I had 1 girlfriend each standard but couldn't continue for xyz reason. 

4. I then last dated in my third year (last of 2021), but long distance was not my thing. 

5. Since, then I feel cringe whenever I try to flirt and don't want any love shove, because I never felt the same, I felt for that girl in class 9th.

6. Since, my last breakup I am only able to fulfil my physical needs but now I want to change that and find someone with whom I can build a strong connection


So folks here, who know the ultimate love game here. Please help me out.

[THREAD] Flirting 101: The Dating Game

Saw a reel, less than half of world's population can voluntarily blur their eyes or raise one of their eyebrows. 

I can do both.

But solves nothing 🤷‍♀️

What's your useless superpower?

FMS college is at whole different level

It takes time to understand and master any domain. You have to do something substantial. Where has the humility gone? Does calling yourself Leader increases chances of getting jobs? It’s mind boggling
And shallow.

Why are 2-3 YOE people calling themselves leader(product leader , engineering leader)?

1. Fancy talks from founders such as ownership, independence, building for next generation, speed etc
2. Learn new tech
3. Glofiying working at odd hours
4. Don't talk about stress and anxiety 

Start ups are not for weak heart and normal humans who have life after work. It's only for people who will give up their life to build somone else dream. Prove me wrong.

An ex ola person cried infront of me for the workplace stress and unrealistic push

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