GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Seeking relationship/marriage/companionship advice.

Hey guys, we all know that the quality of people (both guys and girls) have degraded to a large extent. I’ve this doubt that What qualities a guy should look for in a girl? What are the things which he can compromise with and can’t compromise with?

Thanks 🫡

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CosmicQuokka
CosmicQuokka

From an arranged marriage setup.

Make sure there's no mismatch bw family income levels of both parties, even if individual income is similar, the nuances of upbringing can't be explained easily.

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Noted

ZoomyNarwhal
ZoomyNarwhal

Amazing point

SleepyMarshmallow
SleepyMarshmallow

Make a list of your non negotiable
Everything outside that list is your negotiable

Don’t ever compromise on your non negotiablea as it will make you miserable
Feel free to be super flexible on your negotiables to actually be able to find a suitable partner

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Yeah this what I’m thinking.

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

You can't make a list of everything 😂 and agar vo not in your imagination vale zone mein red flag nikle toh?

FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

@FireHawk if she can stand for ur toughest time of life, she is the 1. Everything else is a shit.

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Noted 🫡

ZoomyNarwhal
ZoomyNarwhal

What if I we haven’t seen toughest time yet ? How will we judge her withstanding us ?

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

You can compromise with anything & everything with the right person. Right person for you is often really imperfect for me or vice versa. A 60 year old rich man can enjoy company of a 21 year old gold digger. No one can list down what works for you. My answer is not helpful, but unfortunately, choosing right partner for you is a decision only you can take.

CosmicBurrito
CosmicBurrito

But the point is how to find a good partner, these online platforms doesn't seems to be working in the case of males.

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Yahi toh problem hai bro. But if you are looking for something serious then datings apps are not good. I might be wrong also but this what I’m seeing.

CosmicBurrito
CosmicBurrito

You are not wrong, the only case where you could be wrong is in exceptions, but we don't consider the exceptions when we talk in general.

ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

For me it is understanding and bonding between us. Rest all could be compromised between us

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

For marriage or relationship?

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Both.

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