Need suggestions for marriage
I have 3 years of relationship and it's been a year now I am convincing my gf for marriage but she was delaying it with lame reason so now my parents force me to arrange marriage and I have done roka. Now my gf is saying her parents are convinced.. what to do now? Ps: it was a healthy relationship. and just because of parent health I have to make a decision in a hurry
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27 points are matching with gf and 17 with the arranged marriage girl.
What reason should I give to broke?
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You want to have the cake and eat it too.... 3 lives are now entangled... and this is place you turn to for advice 🤨
Do a coin toss, heads - arrange and tails - love. Trust me. You will get exactly what you want
Dont break up in a hurry see who understands you better create some situation and observe their reactions. Marry the one who you love more because it’s your life. Would you have married your gf if situation was vice versa?
If the situation was reversed I would have not given hope to her of marriage.
I don't understand if your family is against love marriage then why!!!!!!!!!!
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When you informed your gf about your roka she was fully aware that she will loose you but she didn't take a step then. That shows what's your value in her eyes. If she would have cherished the relationship she would have spoken to her parents before your roka. Now you want to break your roka for your gf. Do you know the pain of a girl when her roka is called off, her parents her relatives all are involved. It won't be wise to break your roka for someone who was coward to take a stand for you at the right time. Nothing against your gf she might be a great person but thats my unbiased suggestion to you.
I totally agree with your point, but only the point why now I am confused is now the arranged marriage girl is not ready to settle in Mumbai as at a start I said I will settle in Pune but due to work policy I have to spend some time in mumbai than only I will be able to shift and she is firm on it. Which makes me think of giving a chance to gf
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