If a person has X hobby, you won’t hang out/date them

hi guys, I feel so lonely these days , I feel no one is there to talk with me I have so many "friends" everyone is busy in their life I feel I need someone to talk at anytime, can share my thoughts. any solutions?

How to find hobbies or anything that I like to do? I’m in Bengaluru, with a lot of free time. I don’t know what I like anymore. I frequently watch movies from theatre and that’s the only thing I do now

I'm new to BLR. 4 months. I feel most IT folks here share the same set of personalities. Almost every person I see is interested in Books, Video games, Board games, Football and F1. Or many other nerdy/geeky hobbies. Sometimes add UFC to the list as well. It's like you all are the same person in different bodies. When I go in depth with conversation, I can honestly see only few know their stuff and most of them are just pretentious nerds for the sake of their jobs or the westernised culture (or any other reason). But most of you just fake it. You guys suck. Why so many things are mainstream here?

So I've never been in a relationship. During my college days, I was really attached to someone and liked him a lot. We were together for about a year. Not relationship together - but it's like when you're close to someone but not given a relationship tag yet. But after one year, I got to know that he was talking to his ex girlfriend and then he left me giving some reasons. I was devastated. Since then, I used to keep pushing men away. Whenever someone tried to come close to me, I kept on pushing them. And that's how I've never been in a relationship. And now that I wish to be in a relationship, every guy around me is either already married or about to get married. I'm 25 Not sure what needs to be done now.

26M, avg looking introvert, I have worked hard and only focused on my career, so consider 0 pro-dating skills. Shy to open conversation/first move to a girl. but confident that I hold the conversation after building the rapo... looking for genuine advice, that's why I have opened up to the community! tried few dating apps but bad experience mostly fake or i dind freak girls or girls chatting for timepass or scams. but sadly, it looks like arranged marriage might be the default option for me... but I like to have a love marriage

Seeking advice from married individuals who have/ want children I’m 26 right now. Should I start looking for partners now or wait till around 30 once I’m financially stronger. Currently 22lpa - Mumbai

Bhai aage bhi toh badho !!!! Every single person has the same set of redundant filter questions Hobbies Genre Ambition Pets Lasaan Its like appearing for IELTS exam

I have recently stopped smoking and I never liked drinking anyways. Do you think there’s a way to hang out and network with people without doing these things?

Context: I am a software engineer with 4 years of experience. Everytime I work with a bunch of engineers (Especially Indian Startups). Most of them are workaholics. They are just working for some company full-time. They are interested in learning more about technology, making jokes about technology, following technology news, etc. That is it. No social life. (Especially after Covid). No skills in any other part of life. Their comfort zone is so small that they have developed a lifestyle of working, sleeping & watching something on laptops and that's it. They make an excellent salary but don't do anything else. Every time I meet a 35-40-year-old software engineer, it is just a physically unfit guy with an arranged marriage who is boring as a brick.